Tag: Allegations of abuse

• These are my concerns.

  My Kenny mommy loves you

  Jamie Stanton

  September 20, 2022

  Family and The agency aka as CPS

  Allegations of abuse, child protective services, children, court, family

• SAN BERNARDINO COUNTY DCFS KEEPS ASKING. What are your concerns Miss. Stanton ? Like what the heck. What a Ridiculous question…. You have My Children.On the 11th of April , San Bernardino county children and family services came to see me at 10:30 p.m. I checked into the hospital on the 8th of April. In Our meeting The CPS worker asked me if I would give her the keys to my house while I was in the hospital so she could look at it. About the only part of the conversation I remember due to the magnesium they gave me. My response was a chuckle followed by a ” Do people do that”? And no, I don’t feel comfortable with anyone I don’t know in my home. I mean she could have been a thief or just a weirdo. The drugs they had me on made me extremely drowsy to the fact I was begging them to start taking me off of of it. Conversation is pretty hazy. After she left it put me in a state of panic. I knew I had to get out of the hospital because I needed to protect my babies. My son had a little bit of jaundice and needed supposedly needed to stay in the hospital I wanted to transfer him to Arrowhead because they have a level 3 nicu and are excellent at what they do. I literally live around the corner from the hospital so if they felt he needed to be in the nicu any longer I would be there with no problem to start the transfer plus I don’t have kaiser and that is where he was born. I checked into the hospital on the 8th and gave birth to My son on the 11th. DCfS showed up in my room at the hospitalon the 11th at 10:39 p.m. that is three and a half days late why if was still ch an emergency didn’t they go get my girls on the 8th I mean an emergency removal. I figure if a child is getting abused 3 days is a long time r at 10:30 p.m. She said she wanted to see the kids. I had no idea it was going to be that night. I mean they were asleep. Actually, everyone was asleep. The next morning I checked out of the hospital against hospital advise yes but it’s a free world. Besides, what was I suppose to do just sit there and wait for these Sneaky incompetent people to do what they seem to do best. I hadn’t taken a shower in days so I needed to get some toiletries. Seeing as I just had a baby I wanted to pick up my son a new outfit for my son coming home and my girls a gift as well. I called my kid’s grandmother and told my kids father to bring my babies home. I was happy to be home already and missed them so much I needed to see them. I waited for hours. I had told him that CPS came to see me as they are accusing me of having a positive drug test. Neither one of us thought that it would have been at 12 am in the morning. They were sleeping at their gammies house safe as can be. It hit 5 or so no social worker to be seen so,Finally He decided to bring my kids home. As I was driving down the street he was pulling up as seen in the camera video footage. We missed each other by 5 min . It was just me and my kids living in my home as my mother got very ill from sarcoma cancer and moved to a nursing home. I was not there. The kids’ father was as he was bringing them home, and the neighbor and him were friends so he came by so they could talk a little before he left. He messaged me and asked me if he could open my garage door and go through my garage to get the kids settled in from being at their grandma’s house. While I am at the store. My neighbor of almost 6 years went in to use the bathroom. Their father is unpacking the car from the gifts and stuff from their grandparents and other family members.DCFS shows up with 2 cops and the first thing they say to the father of my kids is “Hi we are here to take your children and went on about how I was getting high through my pregnancy and he knew it. Then continued to ask him about his Indian heritage and threw a bunch of papers at him to read at the same time as interviewing him. They asked to come in and his response was she will be home in a minute as he does not live here and can not make that decision for me. The cops are ringing my doorbell around in the front of the house. I guess they heard my kids playing . Their father did lie and say they were with me at the store as he knew I would be home at any minute, and the social worker with a cocky little attitude told him they are there to take out babies. The neighbor that was in my house heard cops ringing the doorbell all crazy. Finally he looks into the camera to see what is going on and calls me and opens the door to give the social worker the phone and my kids run out of the house. When my little girl ran out I saw the cop jump out of the way so it looked as if Cali was playing with no supervision in the front of the house. They had my kids father still over there by the garage. The social worker grabs the phone and one of my daughters and starts to walk around to their father and the other social worker with me on the phone and asking us both basically to verify that they were my kids. The neighbor said he didn’t know their names so they didn’t have a positive Id on my kids. I decided to go to pick up my kids’ grandma so she could keep them overnight again or until we get things situated. They agreed to wait for me to get there and the cop looked over and saw my other daughter sitting there at the doorway and reached in my home and grabbed her and they continued to run down the street with my kids. The thing about this is. It’s all been captured by my security and nanny cameras on video. The warrant was no good . It had no address , it was missing four pages out of it. Explaining why they were taking my babies on an emergency removal. Scanned judges signature. One of the police officers said to the social wor my ears running down the st with my babies don’t you think we should wait for the mom to get here as they said they would. Up until this day I haven’t had a social worker come to my kids nd our home to see how they and we live. My kids have cloths with tags on them . They put we had no be food and clothing for our children and they have never been in my home to even know that I have a lovely home. As I am on the way to get the kids grandmother in Riverside to watch the kids I get a call from their father telling me they took the kids they ran down the st with them. First thing I do is call to the hospital made sure my so was still there. Immediately ok called mediack records and got his medical records. They kept my son An extra week almost just waiting to hear back from his negative drug test. The medical papers for my son also say they reached out to DCfS about this and they continued to hold my child in the hospital knowing of the negative drug test. I was able to visit pretty much whenever I wanted. Except the last day I went.At this time I’m feeling stress from being separated from my kids and my newborn baby boy. I had to figure a way to get a lawyer and take care of my health in a very short period of time. I had and have great support system.Not to mention how damaging it is for my son to be away from his mother. After the social worker took my kids she called me that night when I got home. I asked her why did you take my children he said that you weren’t going to do that and she said I never told you I was going to take your cuz it’s exactly so why did you. She said she need to see them so I said well you see them are they healthier theylook they abused. Her response was no they look very healthy. So I’m like bring me mine children back. She kept hanging up and saying that she had to ask her supervisor I mean she must have hung up with us at least four times to get confirmation from her supervisor. I was told that I need to start looking for a family member that will take my children for me I have three kids. You have no idea how hard it is to find somebody to take on three kids all under the age of four at the time. My kids then entered the foster care system. My middle daughter started pulling her hair out. Their outcome was that I should let them shave it because if I don’t I’m abusing my child by letting her pull her hair out. So they shaved her head and gave her an autistic cap ball cap hat whatever you want to call it. They also said that she was doing that before she got there and that’s just not true my daughter had a full head of hair I have pictures of it I mean I have pictures of my child and my children since the day they were born everyday on.let’s move on to my experience with the juvenile Dependency court of San Bernardino county ca. Their petition is filled with BS is what I like to call it. I can say 85 present of what is in that petition is false statements hearsay by the social worker.I was moving around but very slowly as my feet where beyond swollen from birth. I got there at 8:45 as I was not told an exact time to be there. I had a D A that really just didn’t want to be there she reminded of a robot. Basically told me I had to do classes and rehabs and therapy. I am like but I wasn’t high and her response was a shrugged shoulders. At that time I knew I had to move quick. Not knowing if my children will be at court I stayed there all day until the court closed to the fact that the bailiff came over to me and said maam you’re done already so you can goHome. My body just was numb I had my kids stuff with me some shirts their clothes some toys from blankets so they weren’t scared and they felt comfortable with their stuff I couldn’t even give it to him. It took them almost 2 1/2 months for me to have a zoom visit online supervised. My in-person visits didn’t kick in until I believe November.All I could think about is my babies and how scared they were and how they felt maybe that I abandoned them and then deep down inside hoping that they remember us being how young they were. I got to say I don’t really remember anything before the age of five.So I loaded up paid almost $8,000 for a lawyer that did absolutely nothing for me the court is every 6 months so the last time I went I didn’t even have a lawyer there or they changed my lawyer without even telling me which means who’s been working on my case. I felt powerless. My babies have never been away from me. I just felt lost. Post pordum was definitely a worry of mine.Then things start to get weird a the sudden I got social workers calling me and asking me about my personal life and my family and trying to be nice at the same time. You know what’s weird is that they get so upset that you’re upset with them but look at the job they have. I’m not saying that they’re all like that but I’d say it’s about a 50/50 thing that you’re going to come across a real decent individual in this type of process. The judge is saying whatever CPS says goes I mean so they have the ability to increase and decrease my visits and let me remind you I’ve never missed a visit I don’t disrespect I’m do what they want me to do. I’ve done the parenting I did the therapy session there’s a therapist discharge me the same year that they children saying that I wasn’t a threat to anybody the only thing I had to get used to was my children not being around me.I enrolled in the rehab and went a a normal basis and then I get the call my mom really Wasn’t doing good and my mother passed away 2 days before I went to court. I really didt want to interact with Anyone. So I called and told them I wouldn’t be making and didn’t go back .I had a funeral to plan for my mother and alot of financial responsibility that I needed to get tooken care of I need to be Able to pay my bills. My mother and I where so close she loved her little monkeys.So two days after my mom passes away we go to court they bring it up in court I get even more emotional than I even went there with they did not bad an eye towards it which I’m not expecting to but don’t make it worse for me. In my spare time I had been searching and researching for help online for my cps case.At the end of this blog I will attach the website of the class that you can take that can teach you how to defend yourself with CPS and could even help you get your kids back. I realize I need to fire my lawyer which I did and became pro se I figured who can defend me better than me right. Too be continued……… SAN BERNARDINO COUNTY DCFS KEEPS ASKING. What are your concerns Miss. Stanton ? Like what the heck. What a Ridiculous question…. You have My Children.On the 11th of April , San Bernardino county children and family services came to see me at 10:30 p.m. I checked into the hospital on the 8th of April. In Our meeting The CPS worker asked me if I would give her the keys to my house while I was in the hospital so she could look at it. About the only part of the conversation I remember due to the magnesium they gave me. My response was a chuckle followed by a ” Do people do that”? And no, I don’t feel comfortable with anyone I don’t know in my home. I mean she could have been a thief or just a weirdo. The drugs they had me on made me extremely drowsy to the fact I was begging them to start taking me off of of it. Conversation is pretty hazy. After she left it put me in a state of panic. I knew I had to get out of the hospital because I needed to protect my babies. My son had a little bit of jaundice and needed supposedly needed to stay in the hospital I wanted to transfer him to Arrowhead because they have a level 3 nicu and are excellent at what they do. I literally live around the corner from the hospital so if they felt he needed to be in the nicu any longer I would be there with no problem to start the transfer plus I don’t have kaiser and that is where he was born. I checked into the hospital on the 8th and gave birth to My son on the 11th. DCfS showed up in my room at the hospitalon the 11th at 10:39 p.m. that is three and a half days late why if was still ch an emergency didn’t they go get my girls on the 8th I mean an emergency removal. I figure if a child is getting abused 3 days is a long time r at 10:30 p.m. She said she wanted to see the kids. I had no idea it was going to be that night. I mean they were asleep. Actually, everyone was asleep. The next morning I checked out of the hospital against hospital advise yes but it’s a free world. Besides, what was I suppose to do just sit there and wait for these Sneaky incompetent people to do what they seem to do best. I hadn’t taken a shower in days so I needed to get some toiletries. Seeing as I just had a baby I wanted to pick up my son a new outfit for my son coming home and my girls a gift as well. I called my kid’s grandmother and told my kids father to bring my babies home. I was happy to be home already and missed them so much I needed to see them. I waited for hours. I had told him that CPS came to see me as they are accusing me of having a positive drug test. Neither one of us thought that it would have been at 12 am in the morning. They were sleeping at their gammies house safe as can be. It hit 5 or so no social worker to be seen so,Finally He decided to bring my kids home. As I was driving down the street he was pulling up as seen in the camera video footage. We missed each other by 5 min . It was just me and my kids living in my home as my mother got very ill from sarcoma cancer and moved to a nursing home. I was not there. The kids’ father was as he was bringing them home, and the neighbor and him were friends so he came by so they could talk a little before he left. He messaged me and asked me if he could open my garage door and go through my garage to get the kids settled in from being at their grandma’s house. While I am at the store. My neighbor of almost 6 years went in to use the bathroom. Their father is unpacking the car from the gifts and stuff from their grandparents and other family members.DCFS shows up with 2 cops and the first thing they say to the father of my kids is “Hi we are here to take your children and went on about how I was getting high through my pregnancy and he knew it. Then continued to ask him about his Indian heritage and threw a bunch of papers at him to read at the same time as interviewing him. They asked to come in and his response was she will be home in a minute as he does not live here and can not make that decision for me. The cops are ringing my doorbell around in the front of the house. I guess they heard my kids playing . Their father did lie and say they were with me at the store as he knew I would be home at any minute, and the social worker with a cocky little attitude told him they are there to take out babies. The neighbor that was in my house heard cops ringing the doorbell all crazy. Finally he looks into the camera to see what is going on and calls me and opens the door to give the social worker the phone and my kids run out of the house. When my little girl ran out I saw the cop jump out of the way so it looked as if Cali was playing with no supervision in the front of the house. They had my kids father still over there by the garage. The social worker grabs the phone and one of my daughters and starts to walk around to their father and the other social worker with me on the phone and asking us both basically to verify that they were my kids. The neighbor said he didn’t know their names so they didn’t have a positive Id on my kids. I decided to go to pick up my kids’ grandma so she could keep them overnight again or until we get things situated. They agreed to wait for me to get there and the cop looked over and saw my other daughter sitting there at the doorway and reached in my home and grabbed her and they continued to run down the street with my kids. The thing about this is. It’s all been captured by my security and nanny cameras on video. The warrant was no good . It had no address , it was missing four pages out of it. Explaining why they were taking my babies on an emergency removal. Scanned judges signature. One of the police officers said to the social wor my ears running down the st with my babies don’t you think we should wait for the mom to get here as they said they would. Up until this day I haven’t had a social worker come to my kids nd our home to see how they and we live. My kids have cloths with tags on them . They put we had no be food and clothing for our children and they have never been in my home to even know that I have a lovely home. As I am on the way to get the kids grandmother in Riverside to watch the kids I get a call from their father telling me they took the kids they ran down the st with them. First thing I do is call to the hospital made sure my so was still there. Immediately ok called mediack records and got his medical records. They kept my son An extra week almost just waiting to hear back from his negative drug test. The medical papers for my son also say they reached out to DCfS about this and they continued to hold my child in the hospital knowing of the negative drug test. I was able to visit pretty much whenever I wanted. Except the last day I went.At this time I’m feeling stress from being separated from my kids and my newborn baby boy. I had to figure a way to get a lawyer and take care of my health in a very short period of time. I had and have great support system.Not to mention how damaging it is for my son to be away from his mother. After the social worker took my kids she called me that night when I got home. I asked her why did you take my children he said that you weren’t going to do that and she said I never told you I was going to take your cuz it’s exactly so why did you. She said she need to see them so I said well you see them are they healthier theylook they abused. Her response was no they look very healthy. So I’m like bring me mine children back. She kept hanging up and saying that she had to ask her supervisor I mean she must have hung up with us at least four times to get confirmation from her supervisor. I was told that I need to start looking for a family member that will take my children for me I have three kids. You have no idea how hard it is to find somebody to take on three kids all under the age of four at the time. My kids then entered the foster care system. My middle daughter started pulling her hair out. Their outcome was that I should let them shave it because if I don’t I’m abusing my child by letting her pull her hair out. So they shaved her head and gave her an autistic cap ball cap hat whatever you want to call it. They also said that she was doing that before she got there and that’s just not true my daughter had a full head of hair I have pictures of it I mean I have pictures of my child and my children since the day they were born everyday on.let’s move on to my experience with the juvenile Dependency court of San Bernardino county ca. Their petition is filled with BS is what I like to call it. I can say 85 present of what is in that petition is false statements hearsay by the social worker.I was moving around but very slowly as my feet where beyond swollen from birth. I got there at 8:45 as I was not told an exact time to be there. I had a D A that really just didn’t want to be there she reminded of a robot. Basically told me I had to do classes and rehabs and therapy. I am like but I wasn’t high and her response was a shrugged shoulders. At that time I knew I had to move quick. Not knowing if my children will be at court I stayed there all day until the court closed to the fact that the bailiff came over to me and said maam you’re done already so you can goHome. My body just was numb I had my kids stuff with me some shirts their clothes some toys from blankets so they weren’t scared and they felt comfortable with their stuff I couldn’t even give it to him. It took them almost 2 1/2 months for me to have a zoom visit online supervised. My in-person visits didn’t kick in until I believe November.All I could think about is my babies and how scared they were and how they felt maybe that I abandoned them and then deep down inside hoping that they remember us being how young they were. I got to say I don’t really remember anything before the age of five.So I loaded up paid almost $8,000 for a lawyer that did absolutely nothing for me the court is every 6 months so the last time I went I didn’t even have a lawyer there or they changed my lawyer without even telling me which means who’s been working on my case. I felt powerless. My babies have never been away from me. I just felt lost. Post pordum was definitely a worry of mine.Then things start to get weird a the sudden I got social workers calling me and asking me about my personal life and my family and trying to be nice at the same time. You know what’s weird is that they get so upset that you’re upset with them but look at the job they have. I’m not saying that they’re all like that but I’d say it’s about a 50/50 thing that you’re going to come across a real decent individual in this type of process. The judge is saying whatever CPS says goes I mean so they have the ability to increase and decrease my visits and let me remind you I’ve never missed a visit I don’t disrespect I’m do what they want me to do. I’ve done the parenting I did the therapy session there’s a therapist discharge me the same year that they children saying that I wasn’t a threat to anybody the only thing I had to get used to was my children not being around me.I enrolled in the rehab and went a a normal basis and then I get the call my mom really Wasn’t doing good and my mother passed away 2 days before I went to court. I really didt want to interact with Anyone. So I called and told them I wouldn’t be making and didn’t go back .I had a funeral to plan for my mother and alot of financial responsibility that I needed to get tooken care of I need to be Able to pay my bills. My mother and I where so close she loved her little monkeys.So two days after my mom passes away we go to court they bring it up in court I get even more emotional than I even went there with they did not bad an eye towards it which I’m not expecting to but don’t make it worse for me. In my spare time I had been searching and researching for help online for my cps case.At the end of this blog I will attach the website of the class that you can take that can teach you how to defend yourself with CPS and could even help you get your kids back. I realize I need to fire my lawyer which I did and became pro se I figured who can defend me better than me right. Too be continued………

  

  Jamie Stanton

  September 16, 2022

  Family and The agency aka as CPS, these arey concerns.

  Allegations of abuse, cfs, change, child protective services, cps, CPS child protective services, DCfS, kids, lawyers