DCFS CORRUPTION

SAN BERNARDINO COUNTY DCFS KEEPS ASKING. 

What are your concerns Mrs.  Stanton ?  

What a Ridiculous question…. You Have kidnapped my Babies. You and your agency stole my children. From their own home. Now you say you want to separate them because you are making a profit on them fast enough. 

On the 11 of April , San Bernardino county children and family services social worker  came to see me at 10:30 p.m. I was notified she would be coming on the 9th. I checked into the hospital on the 8th of April. 

On The 11th of April I gave birth to a 6p 7ounce baby boy. Raymond Robert Cardenas Jr. Half of the nurses treated me like a normal person. The other treated me as if I was a monster. Very unprofessional and disappointing. The doctor ordered skin to skin and he was gorgeous. After the doctor ordered skin to skin I could remember one nurse that just couldn’t believe it.  The most unprofessional BS I had ever witnessed. 

 I was told the worker would be coming to see me on the 9th. 

The unknown is so much stress at that point it was not healthy for me or my son .The worst part and  a  solid fact in this  matter is I wasn’t on meth. 

 I did however eat a marijuana brownie. I was honest about being admitted to the hospital. 

 I could keep any food or liquids down but I was just craving them . 

Then days went on and my breathing got weird.  I had no idea I was going into a diabetic coma or the start of one. I literally couldn’t stop throwing up . I thought I was positive for the covid . I was almost DKA . 

I have gestational diabetes so I had no clue what I was feeling. It was not something I could fix and I was worried for my son. They actually induced my labor because my sugar was so high.

  When The social  worker asked me if I would  give her the keys to my house while I was in the hospital so she could look at it. 

 That’s About the only part of the conversation I can remember. My response was a chuckle followed by a ” Do people do that”? And  no, I don’t feel comfortable with anyone I don’t know in my home.  I mean she could have been a thief . She also would’ve waited for me to get home. My kids were with their grandma and father at his house. 

The drugs they had me on because of the DKA  made me extremely drowsy to the fact I was begging them to start taking me off it so the conversation is a lot hazy. 

 After she left I was  put  in a immediate state of panic, but was not able to function enough to go home and I knew that so I made the call to my kids father and grandma and told them the agency and hospital accusations and said that they wanted to check on my 2 girls just to make sure they were good. Annoying as it was, it was no problem. 

We hung up the phone and got some much needed rest. 

I was woken like every hour because of the sugar testing and whatever else they wanted to prick me with. The only thing I knew was I had to get out of the hospital because I needed to see and  protect my babies.  My son had a little bit of jaundice and supposedly needed to stay in the hospital a lil longer. He was fine I believe the whole time. His doctor’s records are where I’m getting my info from. If he did need to be in the nicu any longer  I wanted to transfer him to Arrowhead because they have a level 3 nicu and are great at what they do there.  

 I literally live around the corner from the hospital so  if they felt he needed to be in the nicu any longer I would be there with no problem  to make the arrangements for his transfer. 

I checked into the hospital on the 8th and gave birth to My son on the 11th.  DCfS showed up in my room at the hospital 3 and a half days later at 10:30 p.m. She said she wanted to see the kids. I had no idea it was going to be at midnight that night,  I mean they were asleep. Actually, everyone was asleep. The next morning I checked out of the hospital against hospital advice. Yes, it’s a free world, and what would they expect me to do to see what they allowed to happen. 

I hadn’t taken a shower in days so I needed to get some toiletries. Seeing  I just had a baby. I also wanted to pick up my son a new outfit for his coming home  and my girls a gift as well. I missed them so much and they had never been away from me. I called the father of my kids and asked him to bring my girls home. He wanted to go see our son anyway. The hospital was letting one person in at a time due to COVID

On my way to the store after waiting a couple hours I called my kid’s grandmother and asked if their  father was bringing  my babies home already and got no answer so I decided let me just go surprise them at their grammys  and we can talk to the social worker and all that there. I  was happy to be home already and missed them so much. I felt like a piece of me was lost. It was my son. 

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  So it’s about 6 :30 pm, still no social worker and no kids either. I should have called first because he had left after waiting all day for someone to show up it didn’t happen. 

Neither one of us thought that  it would have been at 12 am in  the morning according to their BS Petition that’s when they went there. They were sleeping at their gammies house safe as can be. 

Long part to make short, I was driving down the street as he was pulling in my driveway.

 We missed each other by 5 min . 

 It was just me and my kids living in my home at the time.My mother got very ill  from sarcoma cancer and decided she should  move to a nursing home. I was not there when he showed up. The kids’ father was bringing them home and when he finally arrived I was on my way home from his house on the riverside. He called me on Facebook and asked if he could go in through the garage to get the kids settled in. When he got there my  neighbor and him were friends so he came by so they could talk a little before he waited for me to get there so he could go see our son. While they were chatting the neighbor had to use the restroom and pmy kids father continued unpacking the kids stuff from the car. He turns around and sees the cops and 2 social workers, one of them being the one who visited me in the hospital. The first thing that was said between them was Hi , we are here to take your kids. Naturally he was confused. 

The social worker then after slandering my name like it was nothing she asked him how many times he is here a week and said I was getting high my whole pregnancy. He was very well aware that that was not true. Then they went on about his Indian status. At the same time they are throwing paper work at him and he just wanted some time to read the document they were obnoxiously throwing at him.. They asked if they could come in and his response was no, the kids are with her at the store. 

Yes he fibbed protecting his kids. He lives in Riverside so he didn’t have the authority to let anyone in my home.

While one social worker is drilling him in the garage  The cops are ringing my  doorbell around  in the front of the house. They thought they heard kids I guess.  . 

All the while there is still my neighbor in the house using the restroom. Noticing the cops after using the restroom   in the camera he Is seeing the cops and he panics and he sees what is going on  and decides to call me and lets me know and opens the door and gives the phone to the social worker. I am then asked if I left my kids with their father. I responded yes. They were already told that. While on the 

.  the phone one  my kids run out of the house due to the neighbor opening the door to leave. One of the workers had my kids father still over there by the garage. The other one was on the phone trying to identify my  children so they could kidnap them as they did. The cop jumps out if the way to let my daughter just run out of the house. The cop gets one of the workers’ attention and she notices my daughter. 

 The social worker grabs the phone and one of my daughters and starts to walk around to their father and the other social worker with me on the phone and asking us both basically to verify that they were my kids. 

The neighbor said he didn’t know their names so they didn’t have a positive I’d on my kids. 

I decided to go to pick up my kids’ grandma so she could  keep them overnight again or until we get them situated.  The social worker agreed to wait for me to get there. 

They did not 

  Then the  cop looked over and saw my  other daughter sitting there at the doorway and the other social worker had my other daughter already and she reached in my home and grabbed my daughter and they continued to run down the street kidnapping my kids. 

The thing about this is. It’s all been captured by my security and nanny cameras on video.  I was Walking into this blindfolded and wasn’t aware of what was happening .Later I learned and confirmed the warrant was bogus. They didn’t wait for me, obviously. The warrant 

had no address , it was missing four  pages out of it. Explaining why they were taking my babies on an emergency removal. It was a Scanned judges signature. And had no warrant number on it.  After about 2 hours the social worker called me it’s about 10:30 pm. I asked her what the heck was going on. She said I told you I needed to see them that night. I again don’t remember it being said that it needed  to be that same night. I continued explaining my well deserved concerns about my  children that they just kidnapped for my home. I asked her if they look abused or  harmed  in any way and her response was no they look and are just fine. I of course said okay so bring  them back to me please.  She says hold on let me call you back in 3 min. 

I am at this point about to have a panic /heart attack . She calls back and says I need to find a family member or friend to take in my 3 children all under the age of 5. That isn’t the easiest thing to do. 

I tried for hours and couldn’t find anyone to take them for me. 3 kids all under 5 years old is a lot. 

During our conversation  I asked very basic questions like where are they? Well can I meet you and give you some of their things so they feel comfortable. They said no I can’t. Duringbour conversation my very basic questions she could not answer by herself she had to hang up with me 3 times just to get her supervisor to give her the answers to my very basic questions. Then she gave me the information about the court day for the 15 th of april. 

Boom there it was in plain sight. Our government has lost their damn mind. They have kidnapped my babies OMG . Nothing but panic has been in our  lives since that day except later that week when they took my newborn son from the hospital.

 They kept my son An extra week almost just waiting to hear back from his second negative drug test. The nurses and doctors notes on my son’s medical papers also say they reached out to DCfS about this and told them his test was negative and they continued to hold my  child in the hospital knowing of the negative drug test then they kidnapped him from Kaiser hospital.  I was able to visit pretty much whenever I wanted up until the day they  kidnapped my son from the hospital. The stress and panic of where my children are and whether they are safe or scared  was unbearable. I was beyond emotional. My whole world is gone. My babies were kidnapped. 

Still up to today’s date I have not had a  social worker come and evaluate my home. I have a lovely home. Since then I have been hitting the books and reading the Internet for help. I did in fact hire a lawyer and as much as it costed you would think they would have it under control but no they do not  . For almost 6 months I had no lawyer working on my case. 

I was embarrassed and upset.  

Then even more lies were put in their BS Petition. I did the parenting classes that they suggested and that I had to pay for . The discharge papers from  the therapist they set  me and me up with had no record of. I had 8 sessions with their therapist. How do they not have that in their records? The therapist said I had to get hold of the fact my kids were gone and it was giving me a lil anxiety. 

 In court they said they had to record that. I definitely didn’t have that document at the time. Lost down because of  COVID at that time pretty much everyone was quarantined so those sessions were hour long on the phone. Ridiculous she worked for them. I later learned they were holding back  holding  Exploratory evidence. 

 Let’s talk about their supposed efficient evidence that I had a positive drug test for meth. They have proof of a preliminary positive test of someone but it’s not mine. Both the first and last name on the preliminary positive drug test they have as their evidence were wrong. That was my 2nd baby in that hospital. I’m pretty sure They know my name. I had  3 babies  at Kaiser all together.  Also preliminary positive means they have to send it out for a second test and there was no chain of custody with their evidence. I mean  

Sounds like a bunch of BS to me.

 I know what you’re thinking and You’re right. 

Yes of course this is my lawyer’s job, but  the truth is they really have no  intent on helping me in this matter in any way. In my area where I live all of these places stick pretty close together. I saw my lawyer. I paid 8,000 dollars for laughing with the enemy. 

 I am honestly speaking from  

speaking from my experience. 

Are my kids safe? All of these questions are my damn concerns. I hate it when they ask you that. What are your concerns, Miss. Stanton. What a ridiculous question it’s a damn near smack in the face. 

About four months go by and every day is harder than the day before. It’s the worst pain I have ever had to deal with in my life. My little loves are with strangers in the foster care system. My babies aren’t talking yet. At that point my son was almost 5  months, my daughter   at the time was almost 3 and my oldest witch was almost 4. I was having some  speech classes when they  took them . Her doctor and I were looking to get some help with her autism  and she was 3 at that  time. Explaining to my children what is going on and where mommy is going wasn’t going to be able to happen. My son is till this day confused about who his mommy is. It breaks my heart to even say that. I mean I’m crying typing this. According to the resource parent CFS wants my son  to  call her mom. My daughter is also a lil confused; it just breaks me into pieces. This just can’t be happening. 

Then I get the call that my mother isn’t doing very well. They had all the nursing homes on lock due to the COVID outbreak so I couldn’t see my biggest support  system in my life and I couldn’t be there for her at the time in her life when she needed me. She never complained cause. I know how much pain she was in and still was a freakin soldier. My mother is one of the most genuine and loving and caring people I have ever come across. Not just because she was my mommy. No, she was just a fantastic person that lived for me and my brother. I was just happy to be her daughter. OMG  how much she loved her grand babies. 

My mother RIP died on Sept. 3 2020. This was 2 days before my next court date with the not of record juvenile Dependency court. I was attending their ridiculous rehabilitation program as I was threatened by the social worker that if I didn’t sign their safety plan I would never see my babies again. So like any mother would do, I signed it. Since my mother passed away I didn’t feel like having company so I called the rehabilitation place and took it to the counselor and told her my mother passed and would not be attending their session today. 

When I went to court they made it seem like I went awol and had not been going to their meeting . I got notification I was kicked out because I had not attended two of these sessions. Honestly I have to make a living and keep a roof over my head. The amount of time and hours they want for this is not normal for anyone who has to work. 

Let me put it like this for me to live in my home for still 1,500.00 a month. Let’s add the electric bill and gas for another 200. So we are at least 1700.00 dollars a month. I am not on welfare so add 300 hundred that pushing it for food. Now let’s add the 918 dollars they are taking from me a month for child support. I need to make 3000 dollars a month to live. That is just a roundabout of what I need to survive. But they want to be there 4 days out of the week for 3 to 4 hours a day. Like how do people do that? 

I am just too stressed to deal with any of their BS. Now they have scolded me and taken most of my visits away. I now see my babies 2 times a month for 2 hours each visit.

I realized in court I heard the judge say whatever CPS says to them. I’m like what the heck is going on.

 I realized I walked into this already as the losing party in my case. CPS has the authority to gain and take my visits as they see fit. 

I got to be honest they aren’t a fan of mine.  Seeing how I started reading and understanding what was happening made me angry. I was angry I couldn’t be there to put my babies to bed at night, teach them the things they need in their lives and watch them achieve the very important things they have accomplished in their lives,and most of all are my babies safe. They have stolen the very important moments in my life that I can’t get back………

My daughter started pulling on her hair a lil since being in states custody and they tried to convince me it was because of her therapy sessions they had her in she was 3 . She had never been away from me. I’m like hello you took her from her family. That why she doing it. They convinced me to let them get her head shaved said I was hurting her by letting her pull on her hair. I’m just crying right now . My babies where fine before they kidnapped them from their home.

I am goig to start here. DCFS is saying all of my children are Autistic. My oldest is and she is 5. She also isnt speaking. Now DCFS says she isnt bonding with her brother and sisiter and that they are hav
ing a hard time adopting them all out together. Im Like hold on, what the @&? I still have my rights. How the hell are you doing this. Why the hell are you doing this. My kids are not for sale. Just putting all the emotional stuff aside what are they going to do with my beatuful 5 year old girl who is autistic. She doesnt speak. Why would you take her from her family and then try and seperate her from her brother and sister. Protecting them BS.

They are incompetent and its really bad. All of their reports have the ages of my kids wrong. The reports they write go through like 2 people so that’s kinda sad or is it intentionally done. Either way it’s not ok. As

They have lied saying my son crawled backwards. Some kids do but not mine. I have realized that all this is intentionally being said so they can get a bigger pay check from my children. This is the worst feeling in the world. Some people think that it’s not a good idea to post the pics of our children online and I agree. I figure what if the worst happens and they see their pic they will now how to get a hold of me. The one fact I can say is I will find them they will know the truth.

I have found in my searches online a website that could help some people out I’m am in the process still but very close to the end of it. The website is called Getmychildrenback.com. Also how to win in court is another one that is good. After my outcome I will explain how I did what I am in the process of doing now. Cross your fingers I tried to get into the wrong court. Embarrassed as I am I am not a lawyer I am a mom and a great one at that. Getmychildrenback.com is a class with some information in it that is very helpful. Maybe not for everyone but checking into it won’t hurt any.