SAN BERNARDINO COUNTY DCFS KEEPS ASKING. What are your concerns Miss. Stanton ?   Like what the heck.  What a Ridiculous question…. You have My Children.

These are My Concerns.

      On the 11th of April , San Bernardino county children and family services came to see me at 10:30 p.m. in my hospital room.   I checked into the hospital on the 8th of April. My  meeting with her was brief from what I can remember.  The CPS worker asked me if I would  give her the keys to my house while I was in the hospital so she could look at it. That’s About the only part of the conversation I remember , due to the magnesium they gave me I was very drowsy.  My response was with  a chuckle followed by ” Do  people really  do that”? And  no, I don’t feel comfortable with anyone I don’t know in my home.  I mean she could have been a thief or just a weirdo. 

The drugs they had me on made me extremely drowsy. I wanted them to start  to start taking me off them the minute I had my son.

 The minute After she left it put me in a state of panic. I knew I had to get out of the there. At the same time my son still had to be there. My son had a little bit of jaundice and needed supposedly needed to stay in the hospital.

I wanted to transfer him to Arrowhead because they have a level 3 nicu and are excellent at what they do. I literally live around the corner from the hospital so  if they felt he needed to be in the nicu any longer It would be  no problem to start the transfer to a county hospital.

In the morning I checked out and yes it against doctors opinions.

After I got home. I hadn’t taken a shower in days so I needed to get some toiletries. Seeing as I just had a baby I wanted to pick up my son a new outfit for my son coming home  and my girls a gift as well.

I called my kid’s grandmother and told my kids father to bring my babies home. I was happy to be home already and missed them so much I needed to see them.

 I waited for hours. I had told him that CPS came to see me as they are accusing me of having a positive drug test. He said okay and I was exhausted and had to go to sleep we hung up. Neither one of us thought that  it would have been at 12 am in  the morning. They were sleeping at their grammies house safe as can be. It hit 5 pm and I was already home and still no social worker to be seen so,

Finally He decided to bring our kids home. It seems As I was driving down the street to go to the store he was pulling up the driveway.

 We missed each other by 5 min . 

 It was just me and my kids living in my home as my mother got very ill  from sarcoma cancer and moved to a nursing home. I was not there when cps came. The kids’ father as I said was bringing them home. The neighbor and him were friends so he came by so they could talk a little before he left. My kids father messaged me and asked me if he could open my garage door and go through my garage to get the kids settled in from being at their grandma’s house. While I am at the store. His friend from across the street had to use the bathroom . The kids father is unpacking the car from the gifts and stuff from their grandparents and other family members they received.

DCFS shows up with 2 cops at my house. The social workers the first words to someone she knew nothing about “Hi we are here to take your children. Then went on about how I was getting high through my pregnancy and he knew about it. Then continued to  ask him about his Indian heritage and threw a bunch of papers at him to read at the same time as interviewing him. They asked to come in and his response was. Well she will be home in a minute. He did not live here and can not make that decision for me. The cops kept ringing my  doorbell around  in the front of the house. I guess they thought they heard my kids playing . Their father did lie 

 and say they were with me at the store, he knew I would be home at  any minute, and the social worker with a cocky little attitude told him they are there to take our babies. He did what a parent would do protect their kids.

 The neighbor that was   in my house heard cops ringing the doorbell all crazy. Finally he looks into the camera to see what was going on. He calls me and opens the door to give the social worker the phone and my kids run out of the house. When my little girl ran out I saw the cop jump out of the way, so it looked as if Cali was playing with no supervision in the front of the house. They had my kids father still over there by the garage. The social noticed the cop getting her attention and one of the workers grabs the phone and one of my daughters. She starts to walk around to their father and the other social worker while I am on the phone and asking us both basically to verify that they were our kids.

The neighbor said he didn’t know their names so they didn’t have a positive Id on my kids.

I decided to go to pick up my kids’ grandma so she could keep them overnight again or until we get things situated. 

The social worker on the phone said They would wait for me. My other daughter was by the front door still and you see the cop in the camera reach over and pick her and they continued to run down the street with my kids. One of the police officer makes a comment saying dont you think we should wait for the mom. They said to him no he lied.

The thing about this is I have it all on my security and nanny cameras on video.

It had no address , it was missing four  pages out of it. Explaining why they were taking my babies on an emergency removal. Scanned judges signature.

You know what’s weird is that they get so upset that you’re upset with them but look at the job they have. 

Up until this day I haven’t had a social worker come to my kids and my home to see how or where they live. My kids are very well off. My kids have cloths with tags on them . In their BS report They put I had no food and clothing for my children. That is extremely strange seeing how they have never been in my home to even know any of that information. I have a lovely home.

    As I am on the way to get the kids grandmother who lives in Riverside to watch the kids I get a call from their father telling me CPS took the kids AND they ran down the street with them. 

First thing  I do is call to the hospital made sure my son was still there. Immediately I  called the hospital to get my son’s  medical records. They kept my son An extra week almost just waiting to hear back from his negative drug test. The medical papers for my son also say they reached out to DCFS about this and they continued to hold my  child in the hospital knowing of the negative drug test.  I was able to visit pretty much any time.

At this time I’m feeling stress from being separated from my kids and my newborn baby boy. I had to figure a way to get a lawyer and take care of my health in a  very short period of time. I had and have great support system.

Not to mention how damaging it is for my girls and my son to be away from their  mother and father and family After the social worker took my kids. she finally called me . I asked her why did you take my children you  said that you weren’t going to do that and she said I never told you I was going to take your kids . I know but that is what you did. She said she needed to see them so I said well you see them are they healthy do they look  abused. Her response was no they look very healthy. So I’m like bring me my children back. As the conversation went on  she kept hanging up and saying that she had to ask her supervisor. Lol

I mean she must have hung up with us at least four times to get confirmation from her supervisor about our questions we had.

I was told that I need to start looking for a family member that will take my children for me. I have three kids. You have no idea how hard it is to find somebody to take on three kids all under the age of four.  I called everyone I knew that I trusted and came up with a couple of people. No one was able to to their rules.

That was the worst day of my life .

My kids then entered the states foster care system. My heart just dropped and began my state of panic witch has never gone away. Since they took my kids they have used them for me to be their little puppet. The kids are the ones suffering. The same ones they say they are protecting.

My daughter started pulling her hair out pretty much immediately after they took my babies. They then tried to convince me it’s was because of her therapy sessions and school that She is stressed out , she was 3 years old.

My daughter was attached to me shes my little love bug. They then decided and try to convince me to write them a letter to allow them to shave her head and said   if I didn’t  I would be hurting my child by letting her pull her hair out.  They then got her head  shaved and gave her  an autistic ball cap hat whatever you want to call it.

At this point I’m just like WTF is happening. I said to myself these people are serious. It’s because you took her from her family and her mother like I said she had never been away from me . After I raised my CONCERNS they tried to say she was  doing that before she got there and that’s just not true my daughter had a full head of hair I have pictures of it . My son is the one I have limited pics of.

I then researched day and night looking for a lawyer I could afford and was good.

My life couldn’t get any worse I thought.

CPS went and took my son from the hospital. As much as it hurts to say my son is confused about who his mother is. I heard him call the resource parent mom. I almost threw up I was so upset and you can’t show any emotions or the agency will use that against you in their court of BS. They are going to make comments like” The kids are doing much better now very politely. There was nothing wrong with them before they took them. They are trained to break you down.

Alright let’s move on to my experience with the juvenile Dependency court of San Bernardino county california.

The agency’s petition is filled with BS. I can say 85 present of what is in that petition is false statements hearsay by the social worker. First day of court

I was moving around but very slowly as my  feet where beyond swollen from giving birth. I got there at 8:45 as I was not told an exact  time to be there. 

I had a DA that really just didn’t want to be there she almost reminded of a robot. Basically told me I had to do classes and rehabs and therapy. I am like but I wasn’t high and her response was her shrugging her shoulders. 

At that time I knew I had to move quick. 

Not knowing if my children will be at court I stayed there all day until the court closed to the fact that the bailiff came over to me and said ma’am  you’re done already so you can go

Home. My body just was numb. I could not move just kept staring out the window hoping to see my babies. I had my kids stuff with me some shirts their clothes some toys and their blankets so they weren’t scared and they felt comfortable with their stuff and hit about 4 and and I got the drift besides the baliff telling me I could go home that they where not

going to be showing up. Got in my car cried all the way home. Try not to have a panic attack. At the same time my mother instincts are going to get me thrown in jail. I just want my family my babies.

 It took them almost 2 1/2 months for me to have a zoom visit online supervised. You will notice that when you call everybody that is in charge is always going to be on vacation or not going to be there. Then you have to talk to someone that really isn’t going to do anything for you . I’m waiting for a supervisor going on the 3 rd day right now while typing this blog.

My in-person visits didn’t kick in until I believe November.

All I could think about is my babies and how scared they were and how they felt maybe that I abandoned them and then deep down inside hoping that they remember us being how young they were.  I personally can say I don’t really remember anything before the age of five. My main thing was where they together.

So I lawyered up and paid almost $8,000 for a lawyer that did absolutely nothing for me.  The court is every 6 months. On the second or third court date I went and  didn’t even have a lawyer that I knew.  They changed my lawyer  without even telling me which leaves the question who’s been working on my case. 

I felt powerless hopeless. I have no idea where my kids are and if they are okay. None of my  kids talked at the time so soon visits where difficult. The agency will do everything in their power to make you think your kids are fine without you they will try and break you down. They are trained to do that. They actually want my son to call his resource parent mom. That is so upsetting I mean if the worst case scenario was to happen the resource parent has no intention on adopting my kids so that is hurting and confusing my son and my girls.

My babies have never been away from me. I just felt lost. Post pordum was definitely a worry of mine.

Then things start to get weird all the sudden I got social workers calling me and asking me about my personal life and my family anything that can to use against you to make you look bad.

I’m not saying that they’re all like that but I’d say it’s about a 50/50 thing that you’re going to come across a real decent individual in their Agency.

I’ve  heard the  judge  say whatever CPS says basically CPS have the ability to increase and decrease my visits as they see fit.

At that point you can’t help but think what the heck is the judge even doing there. In other words you loose already without even getting a word in.

You are not aloud to speak in there at all. The father and I tried recording the court session and got told we where not aloud to do that and made us sign a paper saying we would not record anything like that again. Honestly we where at the time just doing it to reference back to  what happen in court so we could understand what was happening.

That raised another question why can’t we record. I mean if they are doing things by the book and had clean hands through this process then why can’t we record our court session. What do they have to hide. I would think I could be helpful to everyone in the process. I mean they could use it as reference or even proof if they did but not these people.  

I’ve done the parenting classes, I did the therapy sessions. Their  therapist discharged me 8 sessions later  and said that I had to get use to not having my

children. She also said that I wasn’t a threat to anybody or my kids. The only thing I had to get used to was my children not being around me.

I enrolled in the rehab and went on a normal basis and worked my schedule around this BS. I then get  the call my mom really 

Wasn’t doing good that I needed to start thinking of hospice for her . All of this was so heavy on me I just didn’t know to to do.

Two days later My mother passed away I really didnt want to interact with Anyone. So I called and told the rehab that  I wouldn’t be making it.

Beside the fact I’m morning.  I knew I had to take care of stuff. My mom’s funeral and  I also had to work rent alone now  as well as  916$ dollars a month that child support  wants from me in child support. My mom just  paid half the  rent and half  the bills but now  it was all up to me know and I got financial support from their father as well. My mother and I where so close.  She passed away

two days before court.  They in the middle of court  acknowledeing my mother’s death.  As if it’s not hard enough to not just break down. They are just tried to destroy me.

In my spare time I had been searching and researching for help online for my cps case.

At the end of this blog I will attach the website of the class that you can take that can teach you how to defend yourself with CPS and in court  and maybe even help you get your kids back. 

I realized  I needed  to fire my lawyer. I did and went  pro se. I figured who can defend me better than me right.

The amount of incompetence from these social workers is rediculous. The BS reports went on saying my son was crawling backwards not true. I mean I know kids do that but just not mine. They where holding back Exploratory evidence. Saying I wasn’t on the therapy sessions for my daughter witch I never missed one. I looked forward to it every week. I actually got along great as the therapist was very  good with my daughter.

The therapy sessions that set me up with, they acted like they had no confirmation I finished them let me mind you that they set me up with the therapist. It was  One of there people From their  cult their people. How do they not know that I finished those sessions 3 months ago. My parenting classes that I paid for same thing I even got a certificate sent me that was forwarded to them the day I got it.  They supposedly didn’t have record of it.

When the social worker writes thier petition of BS they then send it to someone else who then rewrites it and fixes it. That makes it not authentic .

In their reports they will make so many errors.  Always pay attention to dates signatures cause  if you don’t catch it and speak up on it object to it then it goes on the way they are saying it does. Object to everything and make sure it’s gets on the record. They had in their BS reports said that my daughter is 8 she is 5 and my other daughter was 6 she is 4 and my son was 3 and he was 2 . All of their ages are wrong. My oldest daughter is autistic and she doesn’t talk yet. So it looks to a judge that I have an 8 year old autistic child that doesn’t speak. The judge only reads a lil bit of the petition.

My question then is how do you make a mistake like the ages of the kids when 2 to 3 people are rewriting it. Well there is copy and pasting theory that they copy from other reports and paste it to your cause it probably faster and they frequently do that. That also makes it not authentic. Not to mention shows their incompetence in what they are doing. The drug test that they had a preliminary positive on has the wrong name on it both first and last.

I looked up the name in there you have no idea how many people have that name in my area. It’s just not mine name that is the proof. Rediculous.

Let’s now talk about the social workers and why I have had 9 of them in 2 and a half years. They are all the same. If they don’t like you. Watch out cause they will make a already horrible situation harder than you can even imagine. If you don’t sign their papers same think they will threaten you saying if you don’t sign you will never see your babies again. It’s all to trap you into being their puppet. I mean my children are lived cared for and  I have all the needs available for me to take care of my family.

In the last BS report that the social workers put into the courts said that they where not selling my children fast enough so they wanted to separate them . Now at this point I’m about to have a heart attack. I said to myself  Separate. I’m disgusted. I then heard news from a family member that they are actually soliciting my children online. They actually have pictures of my babies online like they are for sale. I still have my right they needed a note from me the other day just to get my son a haircut.

It came to me all this is about money. My children are a pay check for their agency. At this point I want to go take my children back and go off the grid. Don’t even want to be an American at this point.

To be continued……..